ID

We are all so multifaceted. And yet we pretend not to be. 

So many claim an identity, a set of rules. They adapt this character and they cling to it, holding on for dear life. It becomes such a big part of who they are and how to go about their days. And when they come across others who don’t fit their rigid agenda they freak. I mean I get it. We all feel a bit lost. A bit confused. And so we want to feel like we have control over who we are. You know at least let us have that. But it’s become convoluted with this idea that you can’t stray from it. That once you choose than that’s that. It’s like we are expected to fully adapt these sets of rules and if we say you know we agree with some but not others than we are supposedly committing some horrible betrayal. 

I feel like. No I know that I don’t agree with all of it from any side. Nothing fully represents me and my ideas and beliefs. And that’s fine because how can it. I am an individual, all of us are and all of us are bound to have differences. It’s fine. Just dont put me in a box. Dont label me as something i’m not. Just because you are so dead set on sticking to someone else rule book, doesnt mean i am as well. Leave me alone. Move on. Its literally not that deep.

And by the way, if i say i’m one thing and one point in life it doesnt mean i cant change my mind. I’m constantly changing and learning and growing. Nothing stays constant, why would i be any different.